The world needs powerful and loving leaders,

the world needs your leadership and your heart.

Here, leadership means more than just leading others. It refers to your ability to take an active role in your own life, to claim your place, and to exert influence on the world.

You want to make a meaningful impact—contributing to a world that is fairer, greener, more peaceful, and more loving. Yet, you don’t always succeed, because your current way of operating limits your ability to act as you would like.

You may not need to do more. You may simply need to act differently.

I am a coach, and I support people committed to a better world in contributing in ways that are freer, more conscious, more embodied, and more sustainable.

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Over 500 hours of coaching · Over 50 people supported

Perhaps you will recognize yourself here.

There is no single way to arrive here.

You no longer really know what to do.

So many problems, possibilities, and needs… and a struggle to discern what truly matters to you. You would like to find your inner compass again.

You know what you would like to do, but you can’t seem to take action.

You deliberate, hesitate, put things off, and wait until you’re ready. You would like to move forward, even without having all the answers.

You are already doing a lot, but you still feel like it’s not enough.

Your commitment is becoming a source of pressure, guilt, or perfectionism. You would like to contribute without constantly feeling like you need to do more.

You are no longer able to act the way you would like.

Exhausted and disheartened, you find yourself asking, “What’s the point?” You need to protect yourself without giving up on what matters to you: regaining a sustainable momentum.

You don’t dare to claim your space enough.

Out of fear of being a bother, disappointing others, or making a mistake, you adapt and say yes when you would like to say no. Claiming your space doesn’t mean becoming tougher, but becoming more fully yourself.

You feel like you want to contribute in a different way.

A new phase is taking shape: a career change, a project, or a different way of committing yourself. You are looking to act with greater alignment, not simply to do more.

These profiles are not boxes. You may recognize yourself in several of them—or in just one.

My vision

Do you want to change the world? Start with the way you engage with it.

We have learned how to succeed, adapt, meet expectations, and control what can be controlled. We haven’t always learned how to welcome our emotions, understand our needs, or care for the different parts of ourselves.

We are inhabited by several “parts” (this is the language of IFS—Internal Family Systems—a model I use in my coaching work):

One part of you wants to move forward.
Another is afraid.
Another wants to control everything.
Another is exhausted.
Another wants to be loved.
Another says you need to do more.

When we are completely caught up in one of these parts, our field of possibilities narrows, and we react. Creating inner space allows us to regain freedom: more choices, more potential behaviors, and a greater capacity to act.

You cannot fix everything, nor can you shoulder the responsibility for the world alone. But you can take action on what is within your reach: your way of being, relating, exercising your power, navigating conflict, claiming your space, and loving—both yourself and others.

Your personal transformation can become a way of contributing. A drop in the ocean, a way of doing your part.

My approach

Create space. Regain freedom. Embody what matters.

I do not seek to turn you into a “better version” based on a predefined model. Instead, I guide you in understanding yourself better, connecting with the essence of who you are, and developing new ways of being and acting. These six stages do not follow a rigid sequence; we revisit them throughout the process.

Understanding. Exploring your inner world: emotions, needs, beliefs, automatic reactions, contradictions, and the different parts of yourself.
Creating space. No longer being fused with an emotion or a part of yourself: feeling without being swept away, listening without automatically obeying, understanding without judging yourself.
Connecting. From this space, reconnecting with a calmer, curious, and compassionate inner presence. Listening to each part of yourself, understanding what it seeks to do for you, meeting it with empathy rather than judgment, caring for what needs attention, and accepting yourself—contradictions and all.
Developing. Expanding your range of behaviors: asserting yourself, saying no, making a request, setting a boundary, navigating conflict, making decisions, and acting amidst uncertainty.
Embodying. Bringing these transformations to life in your body, your relationships, your choices, and your daily life. Intellectual understanding is not enough to change our way of being.
Contributing. Putting this freedom at the service of what matters to you: your projects, your work, your loved ones, your commitments, the living world, and the world at large.

What changes: becoming your own ally

Before, perhaps:

you feel guilty for not doing enough and judge yourself;
you get caught up in a certain part of yourself and react, without recognizing yourself afterwards;
you adapt or hold back instead of asserting yourself;
you struggle to accept your limitations and imperfections.

Gradually, you can:

welcome your various parts with kindness, even those that express themselves clumsily;
acknowledge your limits without devaluing yourself;
listen to multiple voices within you rather than letting just one decide;
assert yourself, make requests, regain a sense of calm, and feel more whole.

The goal is not to eliminate fear, anger, doubt, or vulnerability, but to make room for them without letting them take complete control. It is about reclaiming enough space and freedom to be more fully yourself.

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Testimony

“[…] This coaching has really helped me make progress toward my goals. […]

I am more willing to be visible and assert my leadership, while fully embracing my personality. […]”

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“[…] I am deeply grateful for this transformative coaching experience with Kévin. His thoughtful methods, authentic approach, and unwavering support played a key role in my growth as a leader. […]”

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“[…] Over the course of 10 sessions spanning seven months, thanks to simple yet effective exercises, I managed to profoundly change my perception of my place at work and within my family. This coaching enabled me to adopt healthier, more effective, and—above all—more fulfilling behaviors in every aspect of my life. […]”

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Is it really for you?

This coaching is for you if…

you want to keep growing—even without knowing exactly in which direction yet—and feel that your old ways of operating are no longer enough;
you want to better understand your inner world (emotions, needs, contradictions, parts of yourself) so you can act more fully;
you are ready to question certain certainties and habits;
you are looking less for someone to tell you what to do and more for guidance in developing your own inner compass;
you accept that a situation can be complex and paradoxical, without a single right answer;
you want your growth to benefit those around you, your work, society, or the living world, and to act with both power and heart.

You do not need to see yourself in everything mentioned above. What matters most may simply be the feeling that you have reached a point where you want to go further.

This coaching is probably not for you if…

You already know how to handle high-stakes conflicts, particularly when strong emotions are involved—whether your own or those of the person you are dealing with.
you are looking for simple answers, a ready-made method, or someone to tell you exactly what to do;
your main goal is to improve your performance or gain more recognition, without questioning your own way of operating;
you prefer things to be clearly right or wrong, rather than exploring their nuances;
you primarily want to change external circumstances, or you have no desire to explore your inner world;
you are seeking power over others, or looking for techniques to influence or manipulate them;
you are going through a period of extreme vulnerability (such as depression or severe burnout): coaching is not therapy and requires the energy to put new practices into action. In this case, I encourage you to consult a healthcare professional (likely a psychiatrist or a clinical psychologist who practices psychotherapy).

How does it work?

Three ways to work together:

Exploration session: €90 (€45 for limited budgets)
One 90-minute session to clarify your situation, identify the beliefs holding you back, and see if this work is right for you.

Getting started: €160 (€80 for limited budgets)
Two 90-minute sessions to define your coaching focus and development goals, and to introduce an initial self-observation practice.

For deep, lasting change: €750 (€375 for limited budgets)
10 sessions: the 2 introductory sessions, 7 sessions of 75 minutes (each including a practical exercise), and 1 closing session.

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Who am I?

I am Kévin Solinski, a human development and leadership coach.

Naturally curious, I explored various personal development, therapeutic, and spiritual approaches before building a practice that bridges inner work, capacity building, embodiment, and taking action.

I support people committed to creating a better world in continuing to evolve without disconnecting from themselves, others, or the world around them.

My conviction: powerful and loving leadership.

Power can turn into control, self-assertion into domination, commitment into sacrifice, and love into self-effacement. I seek another path: asserting oneself without crushing others, loving without losing oneself, claiming one’s place without usurping that of others, and caring for oneself without disengaging from the world.

Power and love may not be opposing forces, but rather two expressions of the same state: that of a person who no longer needs to cut themselves off from their own self in order to act.

Over 500 hours of coaching · Over 50 clients coached ·
Integral Master Coach (IMC) certification · IFS Level 1 and 2 training.

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